We’re exposing patriarchy, invisible labor, toxic masculinity, and modern gender roles in today’s episode of Bow Down! as we dive into the shockingly relevant 1970’s Feminist Manifesto, “I Want a Wife” by Judy Brady Syfers. Expect laughs, raw truth, and a few “wait… what?!” moments.

From laughter to frustration to deep reflection, Reese and Dennis unpack why the essay hit so hard in 1971, why it still sparks debate now, and how its message connects to today’s struggles with toxic masculinity, the divine feminine, and the hidden costs of “helping” roles in relationships.

Expect candid stories, vulnerable insights, and plenty of moments that will make you say: “My God… who wouldn’t want a wife?!”

This episode expresses the powerful combination of spirituality and feminism that Reese and Dennis do best; challenging what we think we know about love, partnership, and freedom.

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References and Resources:

I Want a Wife from The Cut: https://www.thecut.com/2017/11/i-want-a-wife-by-judy-brady-syfers-new-york-mag-1971.html

With empowered Coherence,

Dennis and Reese

Episode ID: 1000725137092

GUID: 3e272061-3c54-41c5-8ca5-999848f22c75

Release Date: 05/09/2025, 16:30:37