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Young, Wild, and Adulting

Young, Wild, and Adulting

Released: 2025-09-03
© Morgan Estep | The Virtual RA
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12 Episodes
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12 Episodes
Audio
Listen on Apple Podcasts
Released: 2025-09-03
© Morgan Estep | The Virtual RA
Most Recent Episode
E11 | Life is Based On a Reward System

E11 | Life is Based On a Reward System

In this first episode of the Dark Psychology series, Morgan discusses how life is built on a reward system and the ways it shapes our habits, addictions, and daily choices. From the habit feedback loop explained in Atomic Habits (cue → craving → res
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In this first episode of the Dark Psychology series, Morgan discusses how life is built on a reward system and the ways it shapes our habits, addictions, and daily choices. From the habit feedback loop explained in Atomic Habits (cue → craving → response → reward) to real-world examples like social media addiction, peer pressure in college, career competition, and even unhealthy family dynamics, Morgan breaks down how our brains are wired to chase satisfaction — and what that means for you.
She dives into the subtle addictions beyond alcohol and drugs, like validation, control, or appearance, and explores how society reinforces them. You’ll also hear strategies for breaking free of bad patterns, reinforcing good ones, and learning how to recognize the systems (not yourself) as the root of the problem.
Chapters:
00:00 Intro  
01:34 Dark psychology topic intro
07:01 The Habit Feedback Loop
15:01 Example 1: Addiction to Dissociation 
19:15 Example 2: Finding yourself by watching others
21:51 Comparison has two options: study and envy
23:14 Example 3: Careers, interviews, and promotions
24:01 Example 4: Some parents want obedient dogs.
26:55 The People Pleasing Pipeline
29:57 Siituationships, love bombing, and settling
32:18 Curing a bad habit
37:18 The world doesn’t want you to have sentience
38:02 Outro
Episode ID: 1000724664391
GUID: bd3f8e4d-103a-4769-9f40-32ab20362392
Release Date: 03/09/2025, 06:52:30

Description

Welcome to the podcast that feels like a heart-to-heart with your big sister (so grab your snacks). Morgan Estep, founder of The Virtual RA, is here to help you tackle (to the ground) college and young adulthood. From mastering self-awareness and adulting skills to safety tips and becoming self-sufficient, we’re covering it all!
Maybe you didn't have a parent or older sibling to explain tips for your internship, how to make friends, what a stock is, or how to change your oil. You’ll find authentic advice, actionable steps, and tough love here (because we both know you need it).

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