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#004 | Breaking Patterns & Building Trust with Cody Mathieson Packer Time: 1:28:12
In this episode:
Alex Croxford hosts Cody Mathieson Packer, a men’s transformation guide, to discuss the complex dynamics between men and women in relationships. Cody shares his personal journey of overcoming challenges, including a tumultuous marriage and career setbacks, to rediscover himself and step into his role as a guide for men.
Together, they explore how men can confront deep-seated fears, rewrite their pasts, and show up authentically in relationships. This conversation brings to light the importance of self-responsibility, healing old wounds, and cultivating healthy connections.
Highlights:
✨ Cody recounts his journey of self-discovery after his divorce and job loss, and how he transformed his life from victimhood to self-empowerment.
✨ They explore the dangers of emotional caretaking and the importance of men stepping into their authority.
✨ Cody shares powerful insights on unlearning harmful relationship patterns and embracing radical self-responsibility.
✨ Alex and Cody discuss the mistrust of masculinity and how both men and women can heal to create more fulfilling relationships.
✨ A touching story illustrates the power of presence and trust in healing traumatic experiences.
Key Takeaways:
Self-Responsibility is Crucial: Lasting change comes when individuals take radical self-responsibility for their emotions, experiences, and healing.
The Importance of Inner Work: Both men and women need to explore their wounds and patterns to build trust and meaningful relationships.
Do You Want to Be Right or Free?: Questioning whether you want to be “right” about your relationship beliefs or truly free from limiting narratives can be transformative.
Real Love Requires Surrender: True intimacy involves letting go of control and allowing relationships to unfold organically, without the pressure of outcomes.
Healing is Possible: Cody’s story of providing safety and presence to a trauma survivor demonstrates the profound impact of healing and self-compassion.
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About Alex Croxford:
Hi, I'm Alex
I am a sex, love & relationship coach and I’m committed to guiding you towards attracting a love beyond the ordinary.
My own love life completely changed when my perfect-looking marriage started to crumble. I felt so much shame. guilt, and fear about the future, I was completely floored and didn't know where to turn.
I had made some BIG mistakes and I never wanted to make them again. I was 38, and I knew I wanted to be in a relationship again one day, so I invested heavily into coaching, therapy, couples therapy, plant medicine, spiritual work, energy healing, and somatic work (amongst many other things!).
This inner healing journey changed my life – first I saw there was nothing to "fix" and more importantly that my unhealed wounds from the past that made me believe I wasn't good enough were impacting how I showed up in ALL of my relationships and they were playing out over and over again. It didn't matter who my partner was, it was the same sh*t different day.
I discovered that for me to create a different reality on the outside i.e. to attract a different kind of love, one where I felt safe, seen and understood, I felt alive, lit up, connected to my sexuality and my body, I had to address the beliefs and stories I carried about myself on the inside.
By taking RADICAL self-responsibility, addressing my self-destructive behaviours and unhealthy relationship patterns my life completely changed. Off the back of my own transformation, I quit a 20 year career in TV to share my deeply embodied teachings with the world, I moved cities and I met my now partner (a
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Release Date: 16/10/2024, 10:30:00
