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Episode 6: Apologies from a Narcissist I’m joined today by Sharmen Kimbrough, MA who specializes in Christ-centered Christ-centered coaching. Sharmen has been coaching with the Marriage Recovery Center since 2015 and works with individuals and couples who are struggling
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I’m joined today by Sharmen Kimbrough, MA who specializes in Christ-centered Christ-centered coaching. Sharmen has been coaching with the Marriage Recovery Center since 2015 and works with individuals and couples who are struggling with emotional and spiritual abuse and helps them find a way to heal and build healthier relationships. Her work is built on her personal experience with trauma including emotional abuse, divorce, and single parenting, and she now uses her experiences to bring hope and wisdom to others struggling to make sense of their life and relationships.
The Mad.In.Love Podcast is brought to you by the Marriage Recovery Center in Seattle and hosted by Dr. David Hawkins, MBA, MSW, MA, Ph.D. Dr. Hawkins is a renowned clinical psychologist who has brought healing and restoration to thousands of marriages and individuals since he began his work in 1976. He is passionate about helping couples heal marriage wounds and rediscover deeper connections and intimacy. Dr. Hawkins is a speaker & trainer for the American Association of Christian Counselors and writes for Crosswalk.com, CBN.org, and Believe.com. He has made regular appearances on Moody Radio and Faith Radio and is a best-selling author of over thirty books.
Dr. Hawkins and his team of relationship experts offer narcissistic and emotional abuse counseling in Seattle and virtually nationwide. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our trained client care team at (206) 219-0145.
Discussion Points:
What do you see as the problem with the apologies of emotionally immature men/narcissists
How men turn comments from their spouse into feeling offended/all about him
She seeks a connection, and he just wants her to shut up and leave him alone
We’ve all been taught from childhood, “You apologize right now, and say it like you mean it!”
How “bad apologies’ only serve to make the woman feel small, and as if she is the one who needs fixing
Asking “When will you forgive me?” - Is it ever appropriate?
When a woman displays loyalty, “I’m still here, I still love you,” etc.. the man has a window of opportunity
How should a “healthy apology” sound?
How the MRC can help
Resources:
Sharmen Kimbrough at MRC
Psychology Today Article: “13 Fake Apologies Used by Narcissists”
Dr. David Hawkins at MRC
Marriage Recovery Center on Facebook
Marriage Recovery Center on Instagram
Marriage Recovery Center YouTube
Email the Marriage Recovery Center
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Release Date: 07/06/2022, 14:58:00