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Gettin' in the Grove

Jennifer J Grove

Released: 2026-03-10

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460 Episodes

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Free New

460 Episodes

Audio

Released: 2026-03-10

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Stop Performing Calm: When “I’m Fine” Is Really Bracing

You’re not calm — you’re bracing.If “I’m fine” is your default but your jaw is tight, your breath is shallow, and your body never fully relaxes, this episode is for you. In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, we’re talking about the hi

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You’re not calm — you’re bracing.If “I’m fine” is your default but your jaw is tight, your breath is shallow, and your body never fully relaxes, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Gettin’ in the Grove, we’re talking about the hidden cost of performing calm. So many women look composed on the outside while their nervous systems are stuck in quiet over-control on the inside. If you’ve ever been called the calm one, the easy one, or the one who always holds it together, but your body feels tense, tired, and constantly “on,” this conversation will hit home.

We break down what performing calm actually is, how to recognize the body signs of bracing, why this pattern makes so much sense, and what you can do in the moment to soften the pressure.

Inside this episode:

the difference between calm and compression

3 signs you’re performing calm instead of actually feeling safe

why this pattern often forms around connection, conflict, and self-protection

a simple 60-second reset using tongue softening and a 4/6 breath

the next step if you’re ready to stop living in hidden tension and over-control

If you’re done white-knuckling your way through stress, this episode is your invitation to go deeper.

Ready to stop carrying pressure in your body? Grab the $97 Pressure Release Toolkit.

Also mentioned in this episode: the Unclench Quiz and the FREE Unclench Club.

Episode ID: 1000754448332

GUID: c8bedc9a-813a-423b-a8bd-ad61e0723db0

Release Date: 10/03/2026, 16:34:24

Description

🎙️ Gettin’ in the Grove is your sanctuary for sacred venting, nervous system healing, and emotional liberation. Hosted by Jen Grove—Nervous System Whisperer & Venting Coach—this podcast is where high-functioning, secretly angry people unclench, exhale, and reclaim softness as power. Each episode is a permission slip to drop the mask and come home to yourself. Raw. Real. Rebellious. No performative self-care here—just deep release and radical self-trust.

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